কোন ধরনের কথা বললে মেয়েরা বেশি আকৃষ্ট হয়? প্রসশ্নটা আসলেই মাথায় মাঝে মাঝে আসে এবং নারা দেয়। ঠিক কি বললে একখকটা মেয়ে খুসশি হবে আর কোন অটা বললে নারাজ হবে । কিভাবেই বা মেয়েদের বেশি আকৃষ্ট করা যায়/।
চলুন যেনে নেইঃ
খুব জটিল বিষয়াদি নিয়ে মেয়েদের সাথে আলোচনা করবেন না। দৈনন্দিন সাধারন বিষয়াবলী নিয়ে আলোচনা করুন। তিনি কীভাবে সময় কাটান সেটা জানতে চান। তার রুচি, আগ্রহ ইত্যাদি বিষয়ে জানতে চান। কি ধরনের খাবার তিনি খেতে পছন্দ করেন টক, ঝাল, না মিষ্টি, বেশি ঝাল, না কম ঝাল ইত্যাদি নিয়ে আলোচনা করুন। মেয়েটির পিতা মাতার সম্মন্ধে জানতে চান। তাদের রুচি এবং চাহিদার বিষয়ে জানতে চান। পিতা বা মাতা কিভাবে সময় কাটায় সে বিষয়ে জানতে চান। পিতা বা মাতা ভাই-বোনদের মধ্যে কাকে বেশি পছন্দ করেন সেটা জানতে চান। কোন রঙের কাপড় মেয়েটির পছন্দ সেটা জানতে চান। যে কাপড়টা মেয়েটি পড়ে আপনার সামনে এসেছে সেই কাপড় সম্বন্ধে প্রশংসা করুন। এই কাপড়টা কোথা থেকে কেনা হয়েছে বা এটার আরো অন্য কোন রং আছে কিনা বা এটা কোথাকার দর্জি তৈরি করে দিয়েছে সেটা সবিস্তারে জানতে চান।
মেয়েটির শহরের কোন কোন রেস্টুরেন্টে খাওয়া-দাওয়া করেছে সেটা জানতে চান। কোন রেস্তোরাঁটির খাবার তার কাছে সবচেয়ে ভালো লাগে সেটা জানতে চান। আপনি একদিন তাকে সেই রেস্তোরাঁয় নিয়ে সেই রেস্তোরাঁর খাবার পরখ করে দেখতে চান এটাও আপনি বলুন। তার নানু দাদু কে তাকে বেশি আদর করে সে বিষয়ে বিস্তারিত জানতে চান। দেশে বা দেশের বাইরে কোথায় কোথায় বেড়াতে গিয়েছিল সেগুলো সব স্থানের বিষয়ে জানতে চান। সেই সব জায়গায় বেড়াতে গিয়ে কি কি দেখছে, কি কি খেয়েছে বা কেমন নতুন অভিজ্ঞতা হয়েছে সে বিষয়ে জানতে চান।
মেয়েদের বিভিন্ন সমকালীন বিষয়ে আলোচনা করতে পারেন যেমন টিপ দেওয়া না দেওয়া নিয়ে তার অভিমত জানতে চান। মেয়েদের বিভিন্ন ধরনের পোশাক-আশা, গয়না এবং নানা প্রকারের শাড়ির সম্বন্ধে ধারণা নিয়ে রাখুন, সেগুলো নিয়ে কৌতুহল দেখান এবং আলোচনা করুন। মেয়েটি যখন কথা বলবে তখন গভীর মনোযোগ দিয়ে শুনবেন। কখনো কখনো পুরোনো প্রসঙ্গে বা পুরোনো যে গল্প তিনি করেছিলেন সেটার আবার তুলুন, নতুন করে শুনতে চান। মাঝে মাঝে তিনি যে কৌতুককর ঘটনার মুখোমুখি হয়ে ছিলেন সেটা নিয়ে ঠাট্টা করুন। এভাবে একটা চমৎকার সম্পর্ক বিল্ডআপ করবে। সে সময়ে সুযোগমতো তার চোখের, নাকের গঠনের বা চুলের বা দৈহিক গঠনের প্রশংসা করুন। কখনোবা মেয়েটির হাতের আংগুলের দিকে তাকিয়ে বলবেন আঙ্গুলগুলো অনেক সুন্দর একটু ধরে দেখতে ইচ্ছে করে কিন্তু ধরবেন না, অথবা বলতে পারেন আপনার চুলগুলো দারুন তো একটু হাত দিয়ে দেখি কিন্তু চুলে হাত দেবেন না। এই প্রসঙ্গে তিনি কি শ্যাম্পু ব্যবহার করেন সেটা শুনে নিন।
মেয়েটিকে সব সময় আলোচনার কেন্দ্রবিন্দুতে রাখুন আর সর্বদা সে যাই বলুক না কেন সেটা শুনতে থাকবেন, যে কোনো মেয়েই একজন ভালো শ্রোতাকে দারুণ পছন্দ করে।
মাঝে মাঝে ঝগড়া বাধাবেন ইচ্ছে করে। ওই ঝগড়ার মাঝেই বলবেন সেদিন না আমাকে আপনি ওই বিষয়টা নিয়ে ধমকে ছিলেন তাতে আমি বেশ কষ্ট পেয়েছি। ছোটখাটো পারিবারিক বিষয়গুলো জানতে চান এবং তিনি যদি কর্মজীবি হন তবে তার কর্মস্থলের মজার বিষয়গুলো নিয়ে আলোচনা করুন। মেয়েটির ভবিষ্যৎ পরিকল্পনা নিয়ে জানতে চান এবং সেগুলোকে এপ্রিশিয়েট করুন। মাঝে মাঝে অন্য মেয়েদের কথা বা আচরণ নিয়ে মজার আলোচনা করুন। মেয়েটি ধর্মকে কতটা গুরুত্ব দেশ সেটা জানতে চেষ্টা করুন। যদি ধর্মকে তেমন গুরুত্ব না দেয় তবে মধ্যপন্থা যে সবথেকে উত্তম সেটা নিয়ে আলোচনা করুন।
কথার মাঝে হঠাৎ মেয়েটিকে থামিয়ে দিয়ে বলবেন-
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তারপর বলবেন, জানো তুমি গতকালকে যখন ওই ছেলেটির সাথে কথা বলছিলে তখন আমার খুব ঈর্ষা হচ্ছিল। এমন কিছু রোমান্টিক কবিতার লাইন শিখে নেবেন এবং মাঝে মাঝে প্রসঙ্গক্রমে তা আওড়াবেন। আশা করি এই পদ্ধতিতে কোন মেয়ের মন জয় করতে পারবেন।
তবে মেয়েদের বেশি আকৃষ্ট করতে এই কয়েকটি বিশষয় আয়ত্ত করতে পারেন যা আপনাকে আরও চতুর করে তুলবে>>
১. পরিপাটি থাকার অভ্যাস গড়ে তোলাে;
২. একটু গাম্ভির্যের সাথে অল্প কথা বলার অভ্যাস গড়ে তোলা;
৩. অহেতুক কথা বলা থেকে বিরত থাকা;
৪. সুন্দরের প্রশংশা করা;
৫. ভাল কাজের জন্য সহযোগিতা করা;
৬. প্রয়োজনে সহযোগিতা এবং নিজ উদ্যোগে এগিয়ে যাওয়া;
৭. মোটিভ বুঝে গুছিয়ে কথা বলা এবং হৃদয় দিয়ে কথা বলার চেষ্টা করা;
৮. সার্বক্ষণিক যোগাযোগ রক্ষা করা;
৯. প্রতিটি কাজের জন্য উৎসাহ প্রদান করা;
১০. সকল সময়ে তার কথাগুলো মনযোগ দিয়ে শোনা;
১১. যখন কথা বলবে তখন অতি আগ্রহের সাথে গুরুত্ব দেয়া;
১২. নিজের সমস্যার কথা কম বলা তার সমস্যার কথা বেশি বেশি শোনা ও
১৩. তার জন্য কবিতা বা ছন্দ মিলিয়ে কিছু প্রশংশা মূলক কথা বলার অভ্যাস করা।
এমন সাধারন কিছু পন্থা অবল্মবন করেই আপনি হয়ে যে পারেন লাভ গুরু বা মেয়েদের বেশি আকৃষ্ট করা পরুষ।
Stupid people say your ideas are stupid because they just don’t understand them. Nobody really gets you, no matter how hard they try. You can’t even fully explain a complex idea before most people lose interest.
You can’t be honest most of the time, with most people, if you also want to be sensitive to their feelings. People often feel threatened, and defensive. You can see how to make everything ten times better with simple modifications, but you don’t have the power to get it done. I’ll say that’s my saddest thing, today.
The smartest people in history suffered from depression and various kinds of mental illnesses due to the impact their thinking habits left on their social life. The smartest people are the saddest people, and that’s evident if you survey the best and most creative people in history, regardless of their domain, whether it’s science or art or entertainment, all of those individuals who sparked additional intelligence and creativity rather than the rest of the crowd had to pay for it big time in social isolation, social bullying and social rejection, as children or grown-ups.
A smart person is relatively depressed, and you’d think if they are so smart, why can’t control their depression? But that’s the sad truth about depression, it’s superior even to intelligence and doesn’t care if you’re smart or not so smart if you’re young or an adult, depression couldn’t care less if you are prepared or not to handle it. If anything being smart can maximize your depression episodes to new highs because intelligence is linked to attention to detail and every confusion lies in details, not the big picture normal people see, so intelligence becomes your curse and worst enemy than a gift you can run with and see life from a special view.
The mind of a smart person is doing non-stop work and running endless cycles working out solutions to problems that don’t even exist! Even when they’re resting their mind works, in fact, that’s when their brain works the most, their sleep pattern is a mess, their social performance declines to very low alarming levels, and this ongoing cycle can be so brutal that it kills their will to live and eventually suicide in some sadly not so rare cases because in their mind every problem has a logical solution then they look at all the injustice and destruction around them without one working solution no matter how big or small the problem at hand is their desire to be part of society shatters then they seek even more social isolation.
Smart people are not very argumentative people, they have more debates and discussions inside their heads than they do with other people. So, if you ever get nothing but silence out of them know that they don’t see you as a match to get them to react. If you don’t grasp the fundamentals of the topic you are discussing or debating they won’t give you the time of the day and may just respond with a cold mini smile or a sarcastic but not offensive comment. Smart people are twice as defensive of other people than they are of themselves.
They are more than willing to sacrifice their time and sanity helping someone out than helping themselves out of the same particular situation and it goes back to a perfect psychological barrier system they created themselves which means you can only offend them if they let you, otherwise all you can do is try. So what this means is that they don’t get offended by the same things that offend other people, for example calling them “weird” is like giving them a compliment, they do like and enjoy being weird, and they naturally strive to be different than everyone else
If you get loud while discussing something with them they will write you off entirely. To them, getting loud is the equivalent to losing the argument so if you want to get them to be responsive make sure you stay calm and refrain from using complex big words because that also means you are not well informed on the topic you are discussing, you can fool many people and they may admire you for it but you’ll never be able to fool them.
Smart people won’t be standing in line waiting to get a best-seller book or attending a global phenomenal movie. While they may respect the intellectual effort of the writer or the movie staff, in their mind, only generic concepts can touch a vast amount of people so they seek unheard books, rare unheard movies or watch an old movie that has sentimental value or reminds them of their childhood.
This society labels smart individuals as “Nerds” and paints them with the most outrageous adjectives there are. A nerd according to our society is someone who is socially awkward, unpleasant looking, needs thick glasses to see, fails to function among a large crowd, is easily embarrassed and bullied, can’t get a date, and can’t get it together. Instead of crediting smart people by referring to them as smart, they’re called nerds and this is exactly how a troubled society operates by isolating the positively different and embracing the negatively influential individual simply because positivity needs effort, while negative is the default and needs no effort to be achieved.
The saddest truth about smart people is that the world around them speaks on their behalf, it speaks so loud and harasses them for being different and daring to be defined by their intelligence by sporting it in their social interactions and refusing to blend in if it meant acting as stupid as everyone else.
You’ll often find them hanging out alone with no friends either by choice or because others see their social behaviour as abnormal, they may wear a sweatshirt to a formal gathering and pay no attention to social etiquette. In their mind, these are all fake things people do to seem what they are not. They are observant, especially of their own behaviour and have a self-corrective system which always keeps track of any personality changes made just for the sake of blending in.
They beat themselves up at night if during the day they said something against their character just to get public approval and can dwell on it for days. Smart people are very moment-aware even if it may look like they aren’t paying attention to you they have already studied the room and everyone in it and decided that no one there is worth their direct interaction with, so they switch to hibernation until the function or gathering is over.
When I think intelligence I instantly think of Einstein, who spent years unsuccessfully trying to snag a faculty position at a university. Even after he came up with E=mc2, Imagine you’re reviewing a resume and rejecting someone like Albert Einstein. Every time an innovator showed moments of brilliance society rejected them, if you go as far as 100s years back when Giordano Bruno dared to think against the church teachings he was given the chance before he was set on fire at the stake by being told: take back your claims that the universe has no centre, and stars are suns, surrounded by planets and moons and you’ll be allowed to live, and he said NO, I won’t, Bruno decided to die and let his idea live (and it did) than live and let his idea die before him.
Throughout history, smart people have been tortured and abused not by society but by a whole complete systemic abuse that doesn’t approve of different individuals and sees them as inferior and a threat that needs to be eliminated.
The saddest truth about smart people is that they are smart people in a world that values and respects the stupid, a world that glorifies and fears dumb individuals and puts them in high ranks, as high as ruling a nation. Human psychology is so complex and impossible to understand we only just began decoding ourselves and there are things yet to be unravelled that as of now we are not prepared to understand, but decades later it will make so much sense and that’s what it’s like to live in the mind of a smart person.
They are here, but their minds are well ahead of their time, they have to be present, but their thinking is in the future, and while they do all that they have to deal with psychological discomforts and various painful episodes they collected as young kids from all the bullying they endured for just being special and different.
Overthinking is a minor, barely reliable sign of intelligence, persistent thinking is a more obvious, reliable sign. When you overthink you are practically stuck inside a loop and that’s not a smart thing to do, however persistent thinking until you work out a solution is a smart person trait. Being an overthinker can happen at any stage of your life especially if you are an average person. Overthinking to obsessive levels is mentally draining and can kill your potential and creativity, and that’s why it’s hard to say smart people are overthinkers because many have created and achieved life-changing achievements.
Not every smart person is depressed and not every depressed person is smart, however, the life routine of the smart can potentially lead to depression due to social disadvantages and also thinking habits and problems sorting.
One of the most false stereotypes is linking intelligence to doing mathematical calculations on the fly or solving complex Math problems faster than average people but you can be smart and not know how to do that and you can be average and know a couple of calculus tricks it doesn’t mean you are intelligent, we often set Math as the most reliable scale to determine if someone is Intelligent/Smart/Genius because of its complexity and randomness to achieve problems solving, but that’s one small factor of many.
It’s often said that: if you hire a lazy worker he’d find the fastest route to finish a given task at the least amount of required effort, and while math is far from static you can learn to hack it and master it and still not be one of the intelligent people.
One of my favourite examples of natural intelligence and gained intelligence is the difference between Lionel Messi and Cristiano Ronaldo. Cristiano is a hard worker he trains non-stop, always working on learning and shaping his skills, but only one thing separates him from Messi, it’s called natural intelligence.
Lionel Messi just goes out there and performs like he created the sport, he only needs to train to stay fit and still be the best player in the world without having to try as hard as Cristiano does, however mastering one domain in life makes you an expert or smart in that particular domain, the kind of smart we are discussing here is the universal kind smart which is so rare but it wouldn’t be if teachers at schools paid more attention to their students than messing on their phones.
Our education system values grades more than it values education and that’s one of the main reasons we rarely hear of gifted smart people anymore.
This world is still not ready to respect and value the smart, as long as you see Kim Kardashian making millions of dollars know that we are not heading in the right direction, and we still have a long time to go as a species to develop and learn. As long as you see a scientific discovery documentary gather a thousand views and a famous model in a bikini video gets millions of views know that we are a generation to feel sorry for.
People get worked up debating hip-hop artists’ feuds all over social media and burn hours of their lives defending famous people who could care less about their existence. Luckily life is the gift that keeps on giving and there are more smart people yet to be born and bring outstanding innovations into the world, and hopefully, by then this world can learn to appreciate and embrace them, instead of making them feel like inferiors and harass them every step of the way. People are more likely to remember Einstein for his “crazy hair” than for his grand findings.
The “in their own mind genius” people are very common these days and they don’t have much that separates them from failures with that mindset, with all due respect to people who fail to achieve in life, no one enjoys or seeks to become a failure, sometimes life circumstances are stronger than our wishes and desires.
I can imagine myself building a spaceship that can take us to Mars in 5 Months but if I don’t start creating, submitting drafts, e-mailing and pitching ideas to involved people that means I accomplished nothing but being a “Genius inside my own head” which amounts to absolutely nothing if it doesn’t end up with an outcome people can touch and see.
If you feel like you have a revolutionary idea no matter how crazy it may sound, get off your seat and promote it to people in your region, on the internet, or anyone involved in the particular domain you feel inspired enough to revolutionize or improve. Never settle for “in-head drafts” and keep projects locked in there, they die with you and that’s a sad way to go.
Most innovators in history were considered crazy the moment they started thinking out loud and people ended up respecting them after seeing their achievements, the best ideas sometimes sound the craziest, especially to those who don’t want to see you achieve.
Dissociative identity disorder (DID) or Multiple Personality Disorder is a mental health condition. Someone with DID has multiple, distinct personalities. The various identities control a person’s behaviour at different times. The condition can cause memory loss, delusions or depression. DID or Multiple Personality Disorder is usually caused by past trauma
It is also known as Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). Multiple Personality Disorder is a neurosis in which the personality (affecting them – name, age, gender, mood, memory, vocabulary) is divided into two or more separate parts. Each of these becomes influential and inactivates other personalities from time to time to control behaviour. One of the symptoms of DID is memory loss. There are also some movies in Hindi and English about it. “Unknown” is one of the Hindi (South) pictures.
Dissociative identity disorder is a severe form of dissociation, a mental process which produces a lack of connection in a person’s thoughts, memories, feelings, actions, or sense of identity. Dissociative identity disorder is thought to stem from factors that may include trauma experienced by the person with the disorder. The dissociative aspect is considered to be a coping mechanism — the person literally shuts off or dissociates themselves from a situation or experience that’s too violent, traumatic, or painful to assimilate with their conscious self.
What is dissociative amnesia?
Dissociative amnesia is a condition in which a person cannot remember important information about their life. This forgetting may be limited to certain specific areas (thematic) or may include much of the person’s life history and/or identity (general).
In some rare cases called dissociative fugue, the person may forget most or all of their personal information (name, personal history, friends), and may sometimes even travel to a different location and adopt a completely new identity. In all cases of dissociative amnesia, the person has a much greater memory loss than would be expected in the course of normal forgetting.
Dissociative amnesia is one of a group of conditions called dissociative disorders. Dissociative disorders are mental illnesses in which there is a breakdown of mental functions that normally operate smoothly, such as memory, consciousness or awareness, and identity and/or perception.
Dissociative symptoms can be mild, but they can also be so severe that they keep the person from being able to function. They can also affect relationships and work activities.
Depersonalisation disorder is marked by periods of feeling disconnected or detached from one’s body and thoughts (depersonalization). The disorder is sometimes described as feeling like you are observing yourself from outside your body or like being in a dream. However, people with this disorder do not lose contact with reality; they realize that things are not as they appear. An episode of depersonalization can last anywhere from a few minutes to (rarely) many years. Depersonalisation also might be a symptom of other disorders, including some forms of substance abuse, certain personality disorders, seizure disorders, and certain other brain diseases.
Depersonalisation disorder is one of a group of conditions called dissociative disorders. Dissociative disorders are mental illnesses that involve disruptions or breakdowns of memory, consciousness, awareness, identity, and/or perception. When one or more of these functions is disrupted, symptoms can result. These symptoms can interfere with a person’s general functioning, including social and work activities and relationships.
How do you know if you have Multiple Personality Disorder?
When two distinct personalities are formed in you – who will have different views, ideas and characteristics.
Suddenly there will be a radical change in your own consciousness.
Often there are differences in one’s personal history, memories and activities and one not being able to remember them properly.
Scientists have not yet found the real cause. However, its treatment is possible.
Dissociative disorders treatment may vary based on the type of disorder you have, but generally include psychotherapy and medication.
Psychotherapy is the primary treatment for dissociative disorders. This form of therapy, also known as talk therapy, counselling or psychosocial therapy, involves talking about your disorder and related issues with a mental health professional. Look for a therapist with advanced training or experience in working with people who have experienced trauma.
Your therapist will work to help you understand the cause of your condition and to form new ways of coping with stressful circumstances. Over time, your therapist may help you talk more about the trauma you experienced, but generally only when you have the coping skills and relationship with your therapist to safely have these conversations.
Although there are no medications that specifically treat dissociative disorders, your doctor may prescribe antidepressants, anti-anxiety medications or antipsychotic drugs to help control the mental health symptoms associated with dissociative disorders.
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I myself come from a middle-class family, so if I write something wrong, please forgive me.
There are many habits of the middle-class family, which are so closely associated with the members of the middle-class family and their lives as natural laws. So it becomes difficult to identify them.
The middle-class family loves cricket games very much. But they don’t play cricket, they only watch cricket.
They waste time watching sports and then discussing it with friends and wasting time there too.
On the other hand, upper-class families take sports as a hobby, they are able to maintain their fitness through sports. They are more interested in making money by buying different types of teams in the game.
The middle-class family likes to spend time watching reality shows (Bigg Boss), popular shows (IIFA, Kapil Sharma Show), and popular serials (Rasmani, Kailashnathan, or Saas-Bahoor) on television. Moreover, social media platforms are the most popular nowadays. On the other hand, upper-class families prefer to come on television.
Middle-class families are always reactive. They give their control to others and get upset over little things. They blame others for their mistakes but do not take responsibility.
Upper-class families, on the other hand, are always active. Doesn’t react, shows up and takes responsibility, and doesn’t try to blame anyone by repeating mistakes. They try to learn from every mistake.
Middle-class families usually envy upper-class families. They waste time criticizing, and they view money negatively, ie – money is the root of evil. Upper-class families don’t care about these, they work on their dreams, and they work perfectly to realize their passion.
Middle-class families do a lot more than they need to, which in my opinion usually public affairs. For example, if you don’t shop for pantaloons, Durga Puja is mud, if you don’t make a blazer from Raymond, it doesn’t fit your body. Despite having a 100cc or 150cc motorbike, Bullet aka Royal Enfield doesn’t work, etc., etc. So says Emma Watson, “Wearing unbranded and cheap clothes doesn’t mean you’re poor. Remember: you have a family to feed. Not a community to impress” The sentence should properly mean middle-class family.
Middle-class families invest their life savings in an event like a wedding which is a social status।
Upper-class families don’t think about others they invest their savings and build their wealth.
Middle-class families stop acquiring knowledge after a certain period. But the elite families keep lending their knowledge and never stop learning.
These are some of the unwritten rules and practices of middle-class families, which make them stay middle class.
Did you know that worms eat four to six times their weight each day? Or that trained pigeons can tell the difference between Claude Monet and Pablo Picasso? Who knew?
But there are dangers out there, too. Your cell phone is infested with bacteria (see below) and traces of the bubonic plague have been found in the New York City subway. It turns out, when you dig a little deeper, things that you’ve taken for granted or that seem perfectly normal can surprise you. With that in mind, here are some weird little interesting facts you’ll likely be surprised to learn. For more informative tidbits to get your mind racing, here are some interesting facts to Make You Smarter This Week.
The mass of clouds floating in the sky:
Many of us think of clouds as light floating objects like cotton, but in reality they are not. The size of a normally sized cloud floating in the sky is much larger than what we see with the naked eye. So its mass is much higher. The mass of such a piece of cloud is more than 100 elephants, that is about 1 million pounds!
Multiple brain animals:
If the brain is the measure of an animal’s intelligence, then the octopus is the most intelligent animal. Because the number of their brains is nine! In addition, octopuses have three hearts. One is for the gills or the respiratory system only, one is centrally for everything and the other is a heart for the octopus legs only.
Even if you don’t want to do anything else in winter, there is one thing you have to do, and that is to cut your nails. This is because nails grow faster in winter than in other seasons.
The most powerful creature on earth:
Bacteria are the most powerful organism on earth. Bacteria are tiny microorganisms that cannot be seen with the naked eye, and they are the most powerful organisms on earth! Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT aunt for me either. So know that a bacterium is capable of carrying 100,000 times its own body weight.
Where the most oxygen comes from:
We have known since childhood that oxygen, the essential element of survival, comes from trees. In the process of photosynthesis, we survive on the oxygen produced by the tree. But now you know, half of the oxygen in the Earth’s atmosphere comes from the sea? Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like Phytoplankton, the tiny unicellular marine plant that lives in the oceans, is about half the amount of oxygen released into the Earth’s atmosphere.
The amount of bacteria in the human body:
You may be surprised to learn that the number of cells in your body is 10 times that of bacteria! On the way back every human being is a bacterial sanctuary! No matter how much soap, spray, handwash or anti-germwash you use, it is impossible to get rid of bacteria. But the funny thing is that almost all of these bacteria are good for our body. Not only sound education but his alertness and dedication too are most required. It is impossible for us to survive without them.
The time when light reaches our eyes:
The light we see in our eyes is the result of photons from the sun. After these photon particles originate in the center of the Sun, it takes about 160,000 years for the surface of the Sun to reach the surface. And it takes only 6 minutes to come to our eyes from that surface. This means that the light we see now was created inside the sun more than 200,000 years ago. And now what is being created would have to wait another two hundred thousand years to reach the earth.
Total amount of water in the oceans:
We have a total of 32 crore cubic miles of water in all the oceans of the world. This water occupies 81 percent of our world. Now if all these seawater were dried up, the amount of salt that would be left behind would mean that our continent would be able to easily lose 6 continents below 500 feet. Now the way our Antarctica is covered under ice, everything will be covered under the wheels of deeper salt.
Length of veins in the human body:
If the number of veins, sub-veins and other blood vessels in a human body could be arranged vertically one after the other, its length would be 72,000 kilometers. This means that you can cover the whole world two and a half times only with the veins of your body.
If you find yourself struggling to understand the women in your life, don’t worry—it’s not as complicated as you might think. The trick to understanding the psychology of girls is to put your assumptions aside and get to know them as individuals.
Whether she’s an acquaintance, a family member, or a romantic partner, if you take time to talk to a woman and really listen to what she has to say, you’ll soon have a clearer grasp of who she is and what makes her tick.
You may also find it helpful to get familiar with women’s issues and learn to recognize and question some common gender stereotypes.
Some psychology and statistics of girls:
1) Girls have more of a gene called OPN1LW on the x chromosome to understand the color red, so they see many shades between red and orange, which boys don’t.
2) From the age of 11 months, girls start to fear insects. Recently scientists are calling it a genetic matter.
3) Despite having an equal number of nerves, the reason why girls hear whispers more and taste better is still unknown.
4) Florida Atlantic University researchers say that girls are more adept at cyberbullying or internet-based harassment and spreading rumors than boys.
5) Girls can recognize faces and recognize roads faster than boys
6) Although emotions are high, due to the special control system of the brain, girls commit suicide 6 times less than boys.
7) Girls’ heart beats faster and they use more words in speech
8) If a girl can hold someone for at least 15 seconds, it means she trusts the person.
9) Girls subconsciously feel uncomfortable keeping their hands free so they keep purses, mobiles.. something like that.
10) In a typical 75-year life a girl spends a combined 1 year choosing clothes, 1 year looking at herself in the mirror, and 4 years with menstrual bleeding.
11) When receiving a call, girls only bend their necks towards the phone and most of the boys turn their whole bodies.
12) If there is any loud noise around, most of the girls close their ears with their fingers and boys with their hands.
13) Most girls laugh while applying makeup
14) When looking at a map, girls look at the direction they will go instead of North.
15) Among the top 20 richest women in the world, except Harry Potter author Rowling, all of them may have inherited their wealth from their fathers rather than their husbands.
16) Girls have more nightmares and emotional dreams than boys.
17) If you pronounce the girl’s name while talking to a girl, the girl likes that person more.
18) Girls live longer than boys in every nation in the world.
19) Girls are very happy when someone asks them for solutions, wants to know what they like, and calls them cute nicknames.
20) Girls get most of their experiences by listening to friends or reading books rather than by themselves.
21) Girls don’t like to wait for anything.
22) 40% of women in developed western countries now give birth to children while unmarried.
23) Girls in developed countries spend 17 years of their lives dieting.
24) Girls cry 30-64 times a year and boys 6-17 times.
25) Girls lie an average of 3 times and boys 6 times a day.
26) High heels have been worn by girls since the 1600s, it was previously a boy’s shoe. Especially butchers.
27) Girls who sleep with their noses closed during pregnancy have poor health.
28) Taller girls have more cancer risk than shorter ones.
29) Girls are better at multitasking than boys.
30) Only 2% of girls in the world consider themselves beautiful.
31) 1 in 6 developed country girls are victims of sexual harassment.
32) Girls blink 19 times per minute and boys 11 times.
33) Girls in developed countries have 150 different hairstyles throughout their life.
34) In China, unmarried girls between the ages of 20-22 are called “Shang Nu”, meaning “old girls”.
35) In 1 year, the combined income of all the professional women in the world is 18 million dollars but the combined expenditure is 28 million dollars.
36) Not only in Bangladesh but all over the world the salary of girls is low. The least disparity is in New Zealand, where women earn 5% less than men.
37) There were 800,000 female soldiers in the Soviet Army during World War II.
38) Brazil’s Victoria’s Secret Company says – 80% of girls in the world wear the wrong size underwear.
39) Only by looking at the fingerprint can you tell whether it is a boy or a girl because girls have twice as many amino acids as boys, which changes something in the fingerprint.
40) 80% of buyers of the “50 shades of grey” book were girls.
41) Ancient Roman girls used to collect the sweat of “gladiators” and use it as makeup.
42) In 1678, the world’s first woman to receive an academic degree was “Elena Cornaro Piscopia” of the University of Padua, Italy.
43) “Saint Lucia” is the only country in the world named only after a girl.
44) If you ask a girl “What happened?” If she answers “Nothing” then you must understand the complete opposite i.e. something must have happened.
45) Still 60.3 crore girls of the world do not consider it a crime to be born at home.
46) Even in the 21st century, every 90 seconds, 1 girl dies giving birth.
47) Girls like guys who have a sense of humor and can make quick decisions.
Remember, every woman is a unique and individual person, just like you. She has her own life story, circumstances, and experiences that have shaped who she is. As you get to know her, try thinking of her as a person first before looking at her gender or any preconceived notions of what a woman “should” be like.
This doesn’t mean you have to ignore her gender—it’s a big part of most people’s identities, after all. Just recognize that it doesn’t totally define who she is.
Get in touch with your own thoughts and feelings. It may seem strange, but understanding yourself better can make it easier for you to understand your partner. If you’re not sure what’s going on in your own head and heart, you’ll have a harder time connecting to what she’s thinking and feeling. Take time each day to mindfully pay attention to your own emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations.