Here is something that people need to understand?

As the human race,

We understand many things. From simple everyday things, or to special talents that we spend time understanding. Sadly, some other simple things, many people don’t understand. So, I made this list to basically just say “You humans need to understand this stuff before we get dumber! “

  1. Don’t use a person to forget another.
  2. “I explained my hurt and still got hurt. So I learned to stop talking.”
  3. A conversation about how you feel is not supposed to end in an argument.
  4. We matured off pain, not age.
  5. Sometimes you think that you want to disappear but all you really want is to be found.
  6. If your absence doesn’t affect them, your presence never mattered. Remember that.
  7. The worst pain is getting played by a person you lowered your standards for. So choose a high-quality partner from the very beginning – tap here to find them.
  8. Key to happiness: ignore the people who think they know more about you than you do.
  9. You have to learn how to love from a distance. If you don’t love yourself, you’ll be stuck chasing people who won’t love you either.
  10. Life happens for you, not for you. Learn through every lesson.
  11. If something costs $1000, and it’s on sale for $750, and then you decide to buy it, you didn’t save $250. You spent $750.
  12. People never judge what anyone did to provoke you, but then they judge when you react.
  13. Please don’t lose the best years of life being loyal to a toxic person. Stay with the right one that deserves your love.
  14. “I can’t believe I allowed myself to be disrespected so many times just because I care about other people’s feelings more than mine.
  15. Toxic people love playing the victim.
  16. “I wanted to feel loved without feeling like I was begging for it.”
  17. They didn’t leave you, I moved them out of your way. – The Universe

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Some of the most interesting facts about human behavior?

Be Queen

Make People Like You IMMEDIATELY with Psychological Tricks.

We found 9 Psychological Tricks we must follow to become that kind of person.

There are people who radiate such inexplicable magnetism that absolutely everyone reaches to them. They wish to be like them, win their friendship or approval. And the most curious thing is that it does not depend on the appearance of these people.

Amazing Psychology And Mind Tricks

1. Individual Image

You need a unique image. Even more, a totally exclusive detail. After all, your own original image is what makes strangers remember you. And we are not talking about beauty.

It sounds strange, but the singularity can be expressed even in ugliness and vulnerability. Any of your signature features – whether it’s a pace, gesture, facial expression, intonation, style of communication, or an item of clothing can make you memorable.

Here are some examples of details of famous people they are associated with:

  • Charlie Chaplin – mustache, suit, cane
  • Tilda Swinton – asexuality, no makeup
  • Winston Churchill – Fat Cigars
  • Joseph Stalin – mustache, pipe, accent
  • Adolf Hitler – original moustache shape, intonation
  • Dita Von Teese – The Image of the 1940s, Red Lipstick
  • Marilyn Monroe – hair color, mole
  • Salvador Dali – mustache, facial expressions

2. You Need A Big Dream

In order for people to approach and appreciate you as a truly unique personality, you must have a reason to exist. Ambitions, goals, a desire to change something in this world. Fight for something. Because a person without a dream is a book without an idea. Why would you read it?

3. Be Confident

To be charismatic, you must have confidence. Courageously make decisions, be able to rely only on yourself, don’t expect outside help, and explain your ideas to others in a way they understand.

People around you can feel your confidence not only in behavior but also in speech. It’s better to avoid phrases like “I think, I hope, I guess, I expect, maybe, probably.”

4. Forget About Complaints

Could you admire and want to be like a person who always complains? Of course not. Charismatic people have a positive mindset. Avoid criticism, complaints, and negative issues. Even if not everything is good in your life, start a conversation that brings you pleasure and does the same to your listeners.

5. Use Body Gestures

Your behavior must demonstrate your confidence: do not bend over, do not tempt with objects or parts of your body, try to smile more frequently, look the person in the eye, and avoid closed postures.

In general, when you appear in public, act and feel like a celebrity on the red carpet.

6. Become A Great Storyteller

Many people believe that the ability to make almost all stories interesting is a talent.

But this is not always the case. Mainly, it is a skill that can be learned. Just speak with confidence. Use humor, especially self-irony: the ability to laugh at yourself. Don’t forget body language, be emotional and positive. Don’t worry if not all your stories and jokes “work”.

Tell your personal stories. After hearing something really interesting, people will share it with others.

7. Don’t Look Away

When you talk to someone, always look them in the eye. Sometimes a penetrating glance can say more than a thousand words. Eye contact shows that you are listening to your caller and that you understand and accept them as a person.

Most importantly, when you’re talking to someone at an event, don’t be distracted by strange things. Do not look at your cell phone or the crowd as it may seem like you are looking for a more “proper” interlocutor.

8. Learn To Listen To Others

There is no need to consider yourself the most important person in the world. A genuine interest in other people’s lives can make people love you more because listening to people is a true art. If you listen carefully to the other person and show interest in their conversation, you will begin to feel necessary and even special.

Obviously, you cannot remember everything your interlocutor said to you, but remembering the name is a big problem. Here is an interesting trick. When a person introduces himself, repeat the name: “Mike, nice to meet you.” And if you want people to remember you, use the same trick with your name: “Hi, I’m Susan. Susan Jones.”

 

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9. Use The Mirror Effect

The mirror effect, or simply mirroring, is an easy way to create someone like you by repeating their facial expressions, intonations, and gestures. It always works because the method is based on the nature of human narcissism: an interlocutor, unconsciously, begins to feel that you are synchronized with them.

You can also use this trick to adopt other people’s unique characteristics. For example, some famous people who seem charismatic to you. See how they are presented, as this can help you feel more secure. You can find a detailed analysis of such examples on the video channel “Charisma on Command”.

intelligent and average people how motivated differently?

Intelligent people are motivated through comprehension and recognition, while average people are motivated through effort and security.

Everyone has a burning drive inside of them. For some, they need to learn from others to find it. For others, the drive comes naturally and pushes them to do great things. See what those naturally highly motivated people do differently and what they can teach us.

1. They move on

Highly motivated people don’t dwell on problems. If they mess up on a speech in public, fail a test, or do something embarrassing, they don’t try to push it away. They don’t let their mistakes stop them from achieving their goals. Instead, they look at these mistakes as nothing but simple moments in their life. They accept them, learn from them, and move to the next thing on their to-do list.

“You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don’t try to forget the mistakes, but you don’t dwell on them. You don’t let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space.”  – Johnny Cash

2. They wake up early

For most people, the morning is the most productive time of the day. While the world sleeps, highly motivated people are getting things done. Distractions seem to disappear and great ideas will come fast in the early morning.

“Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.” – Benjamin Franklin

3. They read…a lot

When Bill Gates and Warren Buffet were asked if they could have one superpower they answered the same thing: to be able to read faster. Highly motivated people are always learning. Reading allows one to take in the knowledge of some of the smartest people who have ever lived. Highly motivated people don’t spend much time watching reality TV – they do, however, spend their time reading. Need some books to read? Get started with this reading Here.

4. They set goals

Highly motivated people are always working for something. They know what they want, and they search for ways to achieve it. Lifehack is filled with great articles on setting goals. Check out this one and start working for something.

5. They plan

Highly intelligent motivated people don’t leave things up to chance. Planning allows people to get things done faster and better. Highly motivated people know this, and they make use of it. Start waking up and planning all the things you have to do for the day. You’ll be amazed at how much more productive you are.

 

6. They seek advice when needed

There will be points in everyone’s life where they just can’t do it on their own. Highly intelligent motivated people are not afraid to go out and look for help. They don’t let stubbornness keep them from reaching their goals. Oftentimes, the best resource can be a person you see every day. Help them and they’ll help you. Yes, it’s that simple.

7. They don’t set limits

Highly intelligent motivated people never stop trying. They pursue their dreams without worry. Limits don’t exist in their minds. Take a second and imagine where you want to be in 5 years. Don’t worry about how impossible it sounds. Remember, highly motivated people don’t set limits. Now write it down. A highly motivated person would hang that piece of paper up, read it every morning, and work towards it every day.

8. They are grateful

Gratefulness has been shown to improve happiness time and time again. Highly motivated people know this and they practice gratefulness all the time. It helps keep them grounded and reminds them that they also had some help. Try to write down 5 things you’re grateful for every day. It doesn’t matter if they’re big or small – just 5 things you’re grateful for.

What will you do?

As soon as an intelligent person understands something, they start to obsess over the topic and become an expert in it. If they cannot understand it, they attack it until they do or forget about it and move onto something they can comprehend better.

But due to their childhoods, constantly having succeeded were other children struggled, they have been praised throughout much of their maturing lives. They learn that this recognition is part of their identity, and continue to strive for it into their adulthood.

Average people, on the other hand, only get praised when they have tried hard at something. This encourages them to put effort into things for their motivation. At the same time, they are rarely told to take risks: they are told to go to college, get a job, get married, and retire when they’re 66.

They prefer the safe kind of life rather than one that could be interesting, and that usually is what makes them average.

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